As you get ready for your big day, planning, primping and prepping, a slight transformation occurs, something that we don't see out right but in time develops into the need for flawlessness and precision. The need for things to be just so… The need for it to be exactly as we’ve envisioned it in our heads…this is where the Bridezilla is conceived.
In early gestation the overly focused bride demands nothing less than perfection with a twinge of control. That quickly develops into an obsession of sorts; expecting everyone within a 50 foot radius to be totally and completely in tuned with all things your wedding. This passion then grows into a firm delegation of tasks and requirements… and there the Bridezilla is born!
Sounds scary doesn’t it?...but is it really that bad? Is Bridezilla a bad word to a bride-to-be? Is it anything like calling her the “B” word?
No! We all have a little Bridezilla in us! We all strive for perfection and satisfaction for one of the most important days of our lives. Why shouldn’t we be insistent on specific details or expectant of those involved in this special time be punctual.
Without these qualities your dream day could quickly turn into a nightmare. Without the attention to detail your guests may not get the opportunity to see the wonderful vision of crushed silk, fresh peonies, chiavari chairs and fine china that you’ve dreamed about since you were 5 years old.
This is the biggest party you will ever plan, so take this opportunity to express your creatively and shine. You only get one shot and it’s worth every bit of your inner Bridezilla.
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